No matter what anybody tells you, words and ideas can change the world. John Keating
I took a writing break because I felt uninspired and couldn't find my rhythm. But then I realized we need more diversity and different viewpoints, so I returned to writing. Having diverse voices in storytelling is important because it makes our stories more interesting and relatable. It helps us see the world from all angles, busts stereotypes, and brings people together by showing that everyone has a unique story to tell, no matter who they are.
My experiences as a woman and a minority inspired me to overcome those creative hurdles and keep sharing my unique voice with the world of storytelling.
This Womans Work
In the past, women didn't have many opportunities to express themselves freely, which meant they didn't get as much practice or support in communication. This lack of experience and encouragement sometimes made it difficult for women to share their stories effectively; expressing themselves could be challenging.
Hiding challenges and harboring shame can be incredibly detrimental to our well-being, as they lock us in a cycle of isolation and self-blame. When we conceal our struggles, we miss out on the support and understanding of others who may have faced similar obstacles, preventing us from finding solutions or relief. Over time, this secrecy can intensify feelings of shame, erode our self-esteem, and hinder our personal growth and resilience.
Cut to today, and many women still struggle to identify their needs, dreams, and desires - because of conflicting goals, expectations, and gender roles. Not having the time or support to practice self-awareness introspection makes this even more confusing.
On top of that, asking for help can be challenging for women because they often feel pressured to be self-sufficient and fear appearing weak or vulnerable. Previous experiences of not receiving the necessary support can further discourage them from seeking assistance.
Women have always been these incredible, unsung heroes throughout history who haven't always gotten the recognition they deserve.
Uncovering the past
Exploring women's untold stories and contributions can inspire future generations with diverse role models and a deeper understanding of women's resilience, paving the way for greater equality and inclusivity.
Here are some things you can do to learn more:
Team up with history buffs, teachers, and cultural centers
Utilize tech like social media and the internet to share inspiring stories worldwide
Read books, Join a book club, research
Watch documentaries
Listen to podcasts
Travel to relevant destinations and have conversations with people
Talk to elderly people
Finding our voices:
Women can discover supportive communities and safe spaces where they feel comfortable expressing themselves. She should consider what matters most to her in different parts of her life, like her relationships, work, and personal growth. Chatting with close friends or a therapist and jotting down her thoughts in a journal can be super helpful, too. And don't forget about setting healthy boundaries and tuning in to her emotions and body sensations – they can give her some good clues about her needs in different situations.
Women's voices can be discovered and heard in various ways:
Education: When girls and women have equal access to education, they become more empowered to express themselves confidently.
Media Representation: Accurate and diverse portrayals of women in media help effectively share their stories and viewpoints.
Supportive Communities: Creating safe spaces, support networks, and mentorship programs allows women to express themselves without fear.
Policy Changes: Advocating for policies promoting gender equality and women's rights fosters an environment where women's voices are respected.
Leadership Roles: Encouraging women to take on leadership positions in different fields provides more opportunities for their voices to influence change.
Social Media: Women can use social media platforms to connect, share experiences, and advocate for gender equality on a global scale.
Education and Training: Communication and leadership training helps women develop the skills to express themselves effectively.
Celebrating Achievements: Recognizing and celebrating women's accomplishments across all aspects of life inspires others to find their voices.
Encouraging Storytelling: Women can be encouraged to share their stories through writing, speaking, or other creative means to resonate with a broader audience.
Male Allies: Engaging men as allies in the fight for gender equality plays a crucial role in amplifying women's voices and advocating for their rights.
Final Thoughts
As a Mexican-American woman, my story often gets overlooked in history books, leaving me feeling like a two-dimensional character. I have acted as one-dimensional for a long time. But I've come to realize that I am so much more. I continually seek the courage to make myself visible, embracing all my imperfections and radiating my authentic essence.
I write to share my journey and vulnerability, using my words to inspire others to do the same. Through my writing, I strive to empower, motivate, and uplift those who face similar challenges by highlighting inspiring stories and triumphs. Because if I don't share my story, who will?
Amor y Canela,
Monica
